Vista - Messages not going throught while chatting

Can someone please tell me why... when both parties are shown ONLINE and
are chatting why 1/2 the messages do not go through from anywhere from 15
minutes to 12 hours ! Is Windows Live Messenger NOW unrealiable for messages
going through ? I hope not ! that would suck to have to change messenger
programs. It happens to alot of my friends who have windows live messenger,
infact they are now using yahoo messenger also for when this hapens. Maybe to
many peple are now using Windows live Messenger and they need more servers ??
Hope theres a fix for this cuz its really annoying. Thanks !!

Im replyng to my own msge i forgot to add smething ... THe worse part of
this is its not even giving the message that message cannot be delivered
to recipients. Its not saying anything at all !! SO you dont even know they
arent gettiing your message , so you think you tell them something and now
they know to you think they just stopped chatting. Really its a BIG problem
for a messenger service program

"Susie" wrote:

Well i just scrolled and im not the only one (as well as my friends) with
this problem. Is Microsoft aware of this ?? and why cant they fix this ??
This is a HUGEEE problem. Im almost ready to go back to yahoo and delete this
WIndows live .. I hate to but if noone cares and is not fixing this
problem that has been going on for months thats sad

"Susie" wrote: