Vista - Restricting remote desktop access

I'd like to create an account for someone to log in and configure specific
programs:

- IIS
- Visual Studio
- limited access to certain directories

Is this just a matter of creating a new account, configuring its security
and then sending the person that username/password?

How do I restrict the programs a person can start?

Some programs, such as IIS, require admin rights to do certain things. How
do I get around this if I don't want the person to have admin rights but be
able to fully configure IIS?

I'd like them to only see certain folder if they open Windows Explorer and
see only certain programs in the start menu.

Thanks,
Brett