thanks for your reply and sorry, if I had been too unspecific.
my problem was, even though I had opened the port,
www.yougetsignal.com would show it as not be accessible.
I have now the issue resolved - the port had been associated with a java-based game, and java had been blocked for all ports. so I allowed java for the same port and
www.yougetsignal.com could access it.
this was my first experience with port forwarding and I had expected that a port would be open for a telnet or
www.yougetsignal.com request no matter what the application is written in.